Our Perspective

Life on earth is a brief adventure. When we are born, we are clearly loving presence. Our spirit is here to experience the joy, love, freedom, drama and the messiness of being a physically limited being. The first realization we have as a baby is that without help we will not survive. This realization never leaves us and for the rest of our lives we are looking for the sense of safety, security and belonging that we can never have.

Throughout our childhood, we are given an identity and a social tribe to belong to. We begin to go to sleep. We are given a name and we are told who we are. Our individuality is given a secondary importance. Most important is behaving in a way that allows others to feel comfortable. We develop a tool called a "personality" and we identify completely with it. We become a machine, so that we are supported and have a place in our family and our local society.

In school we are trained how to think, how to behave and how to live a life. We are given a "program" that directs us to go to school, get a job, get married, have children and make our parents and our community proud. We are given code that propels us down a track that's useful for society. Everyone reacts to this experience differently. Some rebel, some conform, some collapse. Either way, it's a form of damage that comes from being unnatural. Who we are isn't acceptable and so we warp our natural state in exchange for a place in the social hierarchy.

By our late teens or early twenties we have developed a fixed view of how the world works and our place in it. Ideas outside this traditional norm are marginalized and ridiculed. We learn how to be in relationships from our parents and yet we vow never to live like them. Our life direction is set and off we go to live the fairy tale.

Inevitably, life unfolds differently than we expected and we adapt as best we can. These unexpected events soon become our "story" and they shape what we feel and perceive. We begin to judge and take fixed positions. We begin to place limitations on what we can be and do because of the story. This is where we move from love to fear.

Most people stop here. We make the best of it, living in an acceptable mediocrity. We struggle, sacrifice and hope our children find and make a better life for themselves. Unfortunately, our children are learning how to be here from us and little evolution springs from this. They make the same decisions as we did.

But for a few of us, the struggles and pain motivate us to re-examine our ideas of what it means to be human. We intuitively feel that there has to be another way. We are on the edge of a huge discovery.

We start asking the big questions. Who am I? What is life really about? Why am I here? This is when awakening and the hunger for higher consciousness begins. Some of us begin a search for spiritual family, those who are lined up energetically with ourselves. When we meet these people, there is a sensation, a tingle, an indescribable connection that feels like coming home.

At Loving Circles, we are guides in this awakening process. We assist those on the edge to discover their own truths. We are dedicated to helping people live heart-centered lives and to see the gifts in everything that has happened so far.

Guiding people back to a natural loving state is the centre piece of our work. From here, other transformations are possible. People discover and practice their own intuitive gifts, find their unique high purpose, learn self-healing techniques, create conscious relationships, and relate to each other more authentically.

Our work is a combination of many paths and wisdoms from the East and the West. Living in the moment, self mastery and responsibility, reflection work, accepting "what is", and detaching from expectation and judgments are basic principles. Meditation, energy experiences, deepening personal connections and experiential encounters are useful tools to assist us along the way.

All we are is energy and love...